Tuesday, November 27, 2012

DESCRIPTIVE ESSAY #2: REAL FEELING, REAL EMOTION !!!


Do you ever feel the same feeling that I have encountered? Do you ever try to hide your real emotion to your friends or even to your family? Are you trying to wear a fake mask to make people believe that you are really fine? If that is the case we are in the same path. It is really hard to pretend when it comes to emotion, but it is easy to say “I’m fine” or “I’m alright don’t worry about me” and the truth is you really not feel comfortable when you say that words because you know that you are just pretending. Pretending is not helpful when you stock your real feelings inside you and never let them out it can result to a deep stress.

I am the type of person who is jolly, cheerful and loud sometimes I never get tired making jokes or even making fun of others. I never forget to wear a big smile everyday because I know that my smile is like a virus it can infect or it can transmit to everyone. But sometimes I also wear a fake smile this smile can never be transmitted because it harm everyone, but I always try my best to make the biggest fake smile so that it can be a more realistic. Sometimes I tend to wear a mask a happy mask this mask always hide my real emotion when I’m hurt, this mask help me to make me feel better and to pretend to be happy even I’m not, this mask really help me to show everyone that I feel fine. The fake mask is my strength because it can keep my real emotion when I feel down. But if I ask myself, do you enjoy pretending? My answer is NO, because it can make a person weaker when hiding and it can also be a big problem because you will be bombarded with many stressful things.  


     Pretending is not easy the only thing is just be yourself if your encountering difficulties speak it out and your friends and family will surely listen to you. Showing your real emotion can make a person move in a freely and brighter way and this person will know how to fight and to deal with his/her problems. There are many emotions but always make your day special for everyone make your day special for everyone. Make a simple smile each and every person that you passed by without any doubt and surely they will smile at you back. Enjoy your life and live life to the fullest. KEEP SMILING EVERYONE  

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

DESCRIPTIVE ESSAY #1: TRUE FRIEND





               Every one of us has a true friend who is caring, loving and cool. But are you qualified as a TRUE FRIEND? For me there are four characteristics of a true friend. Every each of us has these qualifications but there are some instances that we cannot achieve our expectations for our friends. Friend is very different compare to a TRUE FRIEND, a FRIEND is only the one who is their when you feel sad while a TRUE FRIEND even you are sad they make you laugh or in worst thing they will laugh at you because of your problem…so weird right but that’s really a TRUE FRIEND.  These are the qualifications of being a TRUE FRIEND:

                First, a true friend must have UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, the love without any limit and without any exchange. Loving your friend without any limit is a great gift n terms of your friendship. Second, UNWAVERING SUPPORT a true friend should always be supportive to his/her friend whatever the thing he/she wants to do, just bee always at his/her back to support and cheer for him/her. Third, a true friend should be CONSISTENT OVER TIME, because being a true friend is not only for a day or even for a couple of week but a real true fiend should be LIFE TIME or ENDLESS whatever the situation is. Lastly a true friend should have the WILLINGNESS TO CHALLENGE, challenge the things what they are capable of and what are the things they need to improve, it also includes being easy to forgive an never forget, forgive the things that makes your friendship worst just like problems or criticisms and never forget the things that you’ve been through, our laughter sadness and even in weird moments of your friendship.

                Finding a FRIEND IS VERY EASY but finding a TRUE FRIEND IS REALLY DIFFICULT, because you should be more knowledgeable and intellectual in choosing who are really true to you. Being a TRUE FRIEND is not really hard just be true to yourself and just be proud to your friendship. Always remember we have a friend who have this four characteristics and that is JESUS you can communicate and ask HIM every night, day, hour, and minutes through SILENCE in your HEART. Before I end this I want to ask a very important question: DO YOU HAVE BESTFRIENDS? ARE THEY REALLY TRUE TO YOU??!

Monday, October 29, 2012

CYBER Relationship

          Relationship are the most precious things that was ever made here on earth; relation in family, friends, relation with God and  relation with your partner. But their is a relationship that is present also in the cyberspace it is called the Cyber Relationship. Cyber Relationship are the relation that includes avatar in the cyber world and you have a partner without any contact to each other. Cyber Relationship have the equal emotion and feeling to the personal relationship.

    Cyber Relationship are very possible who encounters long distance relationships. This kind of relationship is present when  one pair of lovers has a distance between them they can be in a relation through the use of the cyber space. It can help them to fulfill their feeling to one another and through the emoticons and avatars they can show their love from each other. Cyber Relation is very efficient when it comes to long distance relation it can be a way to express their feeling to one another.

    Cyber Relation can actually an expression to every lovers using avatars and different emoticons that flashes to the screen. emotions can not only express through personal expression but it can also express through the cyber world. Having cyber relation can also lessen the viruses that we can get from a partner. Avatars are the one that represents you as a person and as your personality as a human being.

    Cyber Relation can't be helpful because it will lessens the true meaning of LOVE true love should be express personally not in a cyber world and not with the avatars. What if the other avatar show an emotion a smiling face but he/she is not really not feeling what he/she really mean, in cyber world you can encounter different false emotion that the other avatar expresses. Personal Relationship in the real world are more efficient than having a Cyber Relationship in a cyber space.






    Having Cyber Relationship is really not easy TRUST and TRUTHFULNESS are tested with this kind of relation it is really hard to handle this kind off relationship but it depends on the partners on how they will handle this kind of relation. Personal Relationship are much preferred by all lovers because they can see each other and they can monitor what they really feel with one another they can easily know if the relationship will work or not unlike in the cyber world.

ONE WISH!

          Genies are only living in a fantasy world, according to my source they are super natural creature who does one's bidding when summoned and in the movie ALADDIN they can be seen inside a magical lamp. If genies are currently existing in this world and if they give me a chance to have three wishes I would be happy and contented.



I would be the happiest person if I can encounter a genie inside a magical lamp that gives three wishes. The three wishes that I will ask is; First, I will wish that my parents, siblings, relatives, and friends including me would be fine and be brave in any problems and struggles that they will encounter as they take one step of their lives. Second, I wish that I will have a younger brother that i will take good care of because I am jealous when I can see brothers walking together on the street and they were happy and enjoying being together and I am wishing this because I am the only son in our family and my siblings are girls. Lastly, my last wish is that I wish that this two wishes would came true in reality because I'm always looking forward with this wishes I wish that this wishes is possible in real life that's why I'm still hoping that I will come true.



      I know that Genies are not existing but I believe that their is ONE GOD who will make my ONE WISH came true and I know that HE will always do everything to make each person happy. Their is no Genies but their is a GOD who will make our wishes came true and also HE will make our lives more better and full of blessings that will be given to us. Just believe in GOD and our WISHES will be granted.

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

ALONE

     Do you feel sometimes that you're alone? Do you feel that no one is on your side when your in depth of problems and struggles in life?  The web definition of Alone is being isolated with others or the lacking of companion or companionship with others.


     Being is not only means physically alone but also includes emotionally alone. Their are two questions that came to my mind when I'm working on this blog. First, Do you feel sometimes that you're alone? some may answer YES, but I stand for NO, because I know sometimes I don't have companions or friends beside me but through MUSIC it can make me feel that I am accompanied by many of people cheering me up and partying with me, and another thing I realized this when the strong light passed through me while walking, that moment I felt that I'm really alone but when the light passed by my shadow appeared and realized that I'm not really alone.



     The second and last question that comes to my mind is, Do you feel no one is on your side when your in depth of problem and struggles in life? then again my answer is NO, because I believe that "no man is an island" he or she can't solve his problem without the help of others like friend, family, and being alone is not only about friends but also about your family,if your friends leave you, your family can't and they will stay with you until the end.


    So I conclude that the word ALONE doesn't really exist, because their are many ways to make your self feel that we're not really alone and always remember that their are 3 persona's you can talk to when you feel alone; FRIENDS, FAMILY, and the most important person GOD because even though we can't see and feel Him we can talk to Him through our prayers and say our problems and struggles to Him in Silence, and He will answer and help us. Just always open your hearts to Him so that He can enter to us and He will be the one to give us the guide to make feel that to be ALONE is not existing in this world.

Monday, October 22, 2012

DAYDREAM!

     One morning, I woke up like a natural day for me. I ate my breakfast, take a bath, wear clothes and went to my school ASIA PACIFIC COLLEGE without even looking at the mirror to see my self if I'am ready. But I when the jeepney is on it's way to Magallanes I feel strange things with my envvironment and my surroundings the people where using new phones with hologram and chatting different things that I can't understand. As my eyes passed by to the people riding on the jeepney I saw my bestfriend  with special someone, I smiled to them and said "hi guys how are you?" and they answered "KENNETH! is that really you?", I answered back "yes?! why?", they just smile and shouted 'PARA' to stop the jeepney and went down to the shell.


     While I am walking with them, I am still thinking about what they really mean and I said to them that they should go faster and I will just to something, eventhough I know to my self that something I not right with this day. The question of the day is "WHAT'S HAPPENING TO ME?!". As I enter to APC I do the natural thing I opened my bag to be checked but I noticed that their is a scanner in the main entrance of my school I was shocked but then again I continue to enter to the premises, I ride the elevator and press the 10th floor, I went down to the elevator when I'm already to the 10th floor. I immediately went to my classroom 1014 because it's already 12:00nn and I am late with my class then everyone was looking at me BM121 looks like very shocked even I was very shocked about what I have saw It's Wednesday but they are wearing casual and their gadgets are not familiar to me anymore, and out professor that day is  Mr.Dustin. I seated and wondering why they are looking at me.

     


     While I'm listening to Mr.Dustin someone tapped my back and said "Kenneth, are you fine? I'm taking to you for the whole time and your just looking at me? why is their any problem?" and I said "WHAT?! your talking to me? but I am listening to Sir Dustin right?", and she answered "No! where at the library since 9:30 and where chatting about the new APC" and I said "what the?! O.M.! OK the whole time I was DAYDREAMING about what you are talking about?" and she answered back "maybe yes?". I realized that all of that was just a dream a DAYDREAM,dreaming while your still awake. Everything was just like a FANTASY, but in reality it's just a crazy thing that a person can think of.

Sunday, October 14, 2012

MYSELF as a GOAL ACHIEVER

          I'm not the type of person who seeks popularity and fame but I am the person who is strong willed and hopeful. I am a competitive person so in my opinion, losing isn't a quality that we should have. I think that just makes us, well... a loser but then again it encourage us to do better. It motivates us to say "I can do this, I can win and I've got the eye of the tiger."


           I honestly believe that being an aggressive person is not a terrible thing because it shows you what you are capable of and you need to prove on. I don't want to be average or good or even great. Want to be the best and I know I can achieve my goal. It's all about the drive you have i yourself to attain it.


          Though I know I have to keep humble and fair in the process. And along with this come self-awareness and maturity. I know I can be the best with the right influence and right encouragement of others. So I dare everyone to dream big because anything is possible.