Tuesday, November 27, 2012

DESCRIPTIVE ESSAY #2: REAL FEELING, REAL EMOTION !!!


Do you ever feel the same feeling that I have encountered? Do you ever try to hide your real emotion to your friends or even to your family? Are you trying to wear a fake mask to make people believe that you are really fine? If that is the case we are in the same path. It is really hard to pretend when it comes to emotion, but it is easy to say “I’m fine” or “I’m alright don’t worry about me” and the truth is you really not feel comfortable when you say that words because you know that you are just pretending. Pretending is not helpful when you stock your real feelings inside you and never let them out it can result to a deep stress.

I am the type of person who is jolly, cheerful and loud sometimes I never get tired making jokes or even making fun of others. I never forget to wear a big smile everyday because I know that my smile is like a virus it can infect or it can transmit to everyone. But sometimes I also wear a fake smile this smile can never be transmitted because it harm everyone, but I always try my best to make the biggest fake smile so that it can be a more realistic. Sometimes I tend to wear a mask a happy mask this mask always hide my real emotion when I’m hurt, this mask help me to make me feel better and to pretend to be happy even I’m not, this mask really help me to show everyone that I feel fine. The fake mask is my strength because it can keep my real emotion when I feel down. But if I ask myself, do you enjoy pretending? My answer is NO, because it can make a person weaker when hiding and it can also be a big problem because you will be bombarded with many stressful things.  


     Pretending is not easy the only thing is just be yourself if your encountering difficulties speak it out and your friends and family will surely listen to you. Showing your real emotion can make a person move in a freely and brighter way and this person will know how to fight and to deal with his/her problems. There are many emotions but always make your day special for everyone make your day special for everyone. Make a simple smile each and every person that you passed by without any doubt and surely they will smile at you back. Enjoy your life and live life to the fullest. KEEP SMILING EVERYONE  

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

DESCRIPTIVE ESSAY #1: TRUE FRIEND





               Every one of us has a true friend who is caring, loving and cool. But are you qualified as a TRUE FRIEND? For me there are four characteristics of a true friend. Every each of us has these qualifications but there are some instances that we cannot achieve our expectations for our friends. Friend is very different compare to a TRUE FRIEND, a FRIEND is only the one who is their when you feel sad while a TRUE FRIEND even you are sad they make you laugh or in worst thing they will laugh at you because of your problem…so weird right but that’s really a TRUE FRIEND.  These are the qualifications of being a TRUE FRIEND:

                First, a true friend must have UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, the love without any limit and without any exchange. Loving your friend without any limit is a great gift n terms of your friendship. Second, UNWAVERING SUPPORT a true friend should always be supportive to his/her friend whatever the thing he/she wants to do, just bee always at his/her back to support and cheer for him/her. Third, a true friend should be CONSISTENT OVER TIME, because being a true friend is not only for a day or even for a couple of week but a real true fiend should be LIFE TIME or ENDLESS whatever the situation is. Lastly a true friend should have the WILLINGNESS TO CHALLENGE, challenge the things what they are capable of and what are the things they need to improve, it also includes being easy to forgive an never forget, forgive the things that makes your friendship worst just like problems or criticisms and never forget the things that you’ve been through, our laughter sadness and even in weird moments of your friendship.

                Finding a FRIEND IS VERY EASY but finding a TRUE FRIEND IS REALLY DIFFICULT, because you should be more knowledgeable and intellectual in choosing who are really true to you. Being a TRUE FRIEND is not really hard just be true to yourself and just be proud to your friendship. Always remember we have a friend who have this four characteristics and that is JESUS you can communicate and ask HIM every night, day, hour, and minutes through SILENCE in your HEART. Before I end this I want to ask a very important question: DO YOU HAVE BESTFRIENDS? ARE THEY REALLY TRUE TO YOU??!